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Pauline Wilbur

d. February 9, 2023


MILLBURY – Pauline R. (Upham) Wilbur, 87, a lifelong resident Millbury passed away peacefully on Thursday 9th, 2023.

Pauline was born and raised in Millbury, daughter of Warren and Doris (Meacham) Upham.  She graduated from Millbury High School in 1953.  She married Richard L. Wilbur on June 27, 1953.

Pauline worked in finance for 68 years.  She loved to knit.  She was a trained soprano singer and performed at many weddings, funerals and church events.  She was a 7th degree member of the Grange of Worcester.  Her whole life revolved around her family, and she loved to spend time with each and every family member.

She is survived by her husband, Richard and her five children, David Wilbur and his wife, Susan, of Charlton; Steven Wilbur of Millbury; Robert Wilbur and his longtime partner, Sandy Gonet, of Leicester; Richard Wilbur of Oakham; Christopher Wilbur and his wife, Julie, of Millbury; Many grandchildren and great grandchildren.  She was also predeceased by a son, Brian Keith Wilbur.

Friends and relatives will honor and remember Pauline’s life by gathering for a time of visitation on Thursday February 16th from 4pm to 7pm at Mullane Home for Funerals, 45 N. Main Street in Millbury.

The family requests that in lieu of flowers, donations be made to Millbury High School Music Department, 12 Martin Street, Millbury MA 01527.

To order memorial trees in memory of Pauline Wilbur, please visit our tree store.

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